Ketika
kamu telah memiliki seseorang yang mencintaimu, maka cintailah ia. Kamu akan
mengerti bagaimana jalan pikiran perempuanmu dari caramu memperlakukannya.
Percaya atau tidak, ia, adalah cerminan dari kamu.
Mana mungkin? Hmm,
cobalah baca ini sejenak, tulisan Brad untuk Jolie, lalu renungkanlah...
My
wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal
life, her failures and problems with children. She
has lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very
skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman.
She
had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her
back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and
got tired very quickly during the day.
Our
relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her
somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped
taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I
lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon.
But
then I decided to act on it. After all I've got the most beautiful woman on the
earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was
the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.
I
began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and
pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I
spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I
praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.
You
won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She
gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I
had no clue that she can love that much.
And
then I realized one thing: The woman is
the reflection of her man.
If you love her to the point of
madness, she will become it.
Setelahnya,
mungkin kamu akan mengerti bagaimana memperlakukan perempuanmu dengan
seharusnya. Buatlah ia senantiasa tersenyum, tertawa, bahagia, dan... aku
jamin, kamu juga akan mendapatkan hal yang sama.
Aku bisa melihat perempuanku kini
tersenyum, setelah ia membaca.
(IPM)
Bandung, Juni 2015
#Cerita
di atas dikutip dari fan FB Matthew Mandilag.
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